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Broke, Desperate and at the End of Your Tether?
Have you been trying to start an Internet business and find yourself broke, desperate and coming to the end of your tether'
Well, you're not alone.
Here are samples of correspondence that I've received from folks who are in exactly that situation.
" ...I have bought so many books I have lost count and am now so totally confused (and broke) about what to do I'm just
about to give up."
" ...I am twenty years old and entirely dependent on myself. I have no parents and I am out on my own trying to make my way in this cruel world. I struggle to get by with my current job as a bus boy and I am tired of living from paycheck to paycheck. I am currently out of school and wish to go back but I do not have the time nor the money. I have dreams but do not have the time nor the money to pursue them."
" ...I am a parent, divorced and am struggling to make ends meet. I cannot quit my job."
" ...I desperately need more income."
" ...bill collectors hounding..."
" ...I am a mom of six children and I have tried and spent thousands of dollars on trying to make money."
Are You A Runaway Brdie?Are You a Runaway Bride' By Jeff Neil Did you see the movie "Runaway Bride"' If you didn`t, or don`t completely remember, let me ..... " ...as a two month veteran on the Internet I don't know if I can take another hit. I feel like I've been 10 rounds with Mike Tyson and I'm really thinking about staying on the canvas. Thousands of dollars later and I'm still on the starting line!"
" ...invested thousands of dollars of my savings in the last two years in home business that I could not afford."
" ...burned really bad within the last two years for alot of money."
Does that ring any bells with you'
Yes'
OK...I want you to pinch yourself to confirm that you're still among the living.
Still here'
Good!
Where there's life, there's hope.
Now take a long, deep breath. Make that 10 deep breaths.
No, seriously. Close your eyes, breathe deeply and feel your body relax.
Relaxed' OK, here are some suggestions.
First of all, focusing on losses won't help you win. Let go of the past. What's done is done. Unless you can recoup some of your money, learn the lesson, chalk it up to experience and move on.
Next, work on building a mental image of yourself as an extraordinarily happy and successful Internet entrepeneur.
Trust me, this works.
Failing my first attempt at air traffic control training, I felt defeated, depressed and stupid. When given a second training opportunity, I was reluctant to try, fearful of failing again.
Then the little voice inside my head told me how much I really WANTED that job. I also wanted to prove that those who cast me aside the first time were wrong - that I COULD do that job. ......
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